Sex. It’s something most human beings enjoy doing. We are naturally wired to want to mate with another person – preferably someone we’re in love with and plan on spending the majority of our time with.
And yet, even though the act does bring pleasure in and of itself, doing it the same way over and over, night after night can become a bit… well…
BORING, that’s what!
Repetition can make any act become less and less thrilling, including sex. Furthermore, people have their own ideas of what makes the act truly exciting for them, as well as thoughts about what they’d LIKE to try in order to give it even more of a thrill.
Of course, in order to do these ideas out, they must have another person’s consent. And that, my friends, is where things get tricky.
Believe it or not, there ARE some people who are NOT willing to try new things in the bedroom. They like doing the same 2 or 3 actions in bed, and those are the ONLY ones they are comfortable doing. Any talk of trying to do something beyond those moves and the other person becomes uncomfortable, or starts giving you that “Oh-my-God-I-can’t-believe-this-person-asked-ME-to-do-THAT” look.
Luckily, there are also people who have the same attitude I have, which is: “Eh, it couldn’t hurt to at least try it ONCE. Who knows, I might actually LIKE it!”
And THOSE are the people you want to be with. If the person you’re with won’t try something as simple as a few new positions in the sack, what ELSE are they not going to want to try? Skydiving? Tree climbing? Karaoke? How willing are they going to be to do new activities with you OUTSIDE the bedroom if they won’t even let you try something as simple as tying them up with duct tape, covering them with feathers and pouring apple sauce in their lap before you devour them??
Ah, being with someone who likes to experiment in bed… now THAT’S something to be thankful for!
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